This could be the best (or worst) day of the year! When all couples are eagerly smoldering each other with overflowing sense of love, some of us may feel the contrary, like another love song playing on the radio can seriously make us pull all our hair out or suffocate ourselves to tears with a pillow! Gosh.
So, an age old question, what is love?
Is it the butterflies in our stomach, the dizzy feeling we feel on our first kiss, the tingling sensation when we hold the hand of that special someone for the first time, that quiet moment spend out at the sea, the soft whispers in the ears, the endless giggling, the long phone conversations (or rather FaceTime and texting back and forth these days), the list goes on and on.
What happens if that first rush of love fades away ever so unintentionally as time goes by? Aptly pointed out by the Wongfu Production fellas in their infamous relationship video (Strangers, Again), laying out the stages of relationship each couple usually goes through? What then?
Well, it remains a mystery (or hard cold reality for some of us) for each and everyone of us looks at this thing called LOVE very differently, and therefore, holds different meaning to us.
Each of us love in various ways, some are not capable of doing so. Let's love the way we love, no matter.
Each of us love in various ways, some are not capable of doing so. Let's love the way we love, no matter.
Whether you are single, or hitched, looking for love, separated or still very much in love with your other half, let's not forget that perhaps there is only one over a gazillion chance in this lifetime that you ended up with that other person, and it's somewhat quite a miracle, don't you think so? Why are we attracted to this person and not the other one sitting next to our table? So, on that note, let's celebrate love, in the simplest form - with much care and appreciation towards each and every single relationship that we have ever been in, for be it good or bad, there is always something to learn from them, no?
How is your Valentine's Day? Any plans?
On this day (like any other day, actually, if you come to think of it), we wish you a very Happy Valentine's Day! May you find love (be it with someone else, or with your self) that is so full that you are smiling all the way till the night falls (and the morning after, and after *_^).
I Choose You, I Choose Love!
Beautiful post My dear!! xx
ReplyDeletethanks thanks Arely! Much love to you over there in Italy. Hope your Valentine was a fab one *_^
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